Last week would have been my youngest daughter’s 18th birthday. There’s something about those milestone dates that bring an extra level of sadness and sorrow.
Four birthdays of hers have happened without her here to celebrate.
Though we make attempts to find ways of redeeming what we’ve lost, we’d all choose to have her here with us. We’d all choose to wake up and give her the biggest of birthday hugs and kisses. We’d all choose to find last minute gifts to wrap for her. We’d all choose to hear her exuberant expressions of delight when she unwrapped them. We’d all choose to sing ‘Happy Birthday’ to her, watch her blow out all her candles, and see the sparkle in her eyes and the dimple in her cheek.
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